Wednesday, February 01, 2006
Seasons of Love
Seasons of LoveFive hundred twenty-five thousand six hundred minutes Five hundred twenty-five thousand six hundred moments so dear Five hundred twenty-five thousand six hundred minutes How do you measure -- measure a year? In daylights -- In sunsets In midnights -- In cups of coffee In inches -- In miles In laughter -- In strife In -- Five hundred twenty-five thousand six hundred minutes How do you measure a year in the life? How about love? How about love? How about love? Measure in love Seasons of love Seasons of love SOLOIST #1 Five hundred twenty-five thousand six hundred minutes Five hundred twenty-five thousand Journeys to plan Five hundred twenty-five thousand six hundred minutes How do you measure the life Of a woman or a man? SOLOIST #2 In truths that she learned Or in times that he cried In bridges he burned Or the way that she died ALL It's time now - to sing out Tho' the story never ends Let's celebrate Remember a year in the life of friends Remember the love Remember the love Remember the love Measure in love SOLOIST #1 Measure, measure your life in love Seasons of love ... Seasons of love - From RENT, the MusicalSusan Reno-Gilliland A Southern Belle's Life 2006 © Copyrighted Materials - All Rights Reserved.
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Saturday, December 31, 2005
A Long December
A long december and there's reason to believe Maybe this year will be better than the last I can't remember the last thing that you said as you were leavin' Now the days go by so fast
And it's one more day up in the canyons And it's one more night in hollywood If you think that I could be forgiven ... i wish you would
The smell of hospitals in winter And the feeling that it's all a lot of oysters, but no pearls All at once you look across a crowded room To see the way that light attaches to a girl
And it's one more day up in the canyons And it's one more night in hollywood If you think you might come to california ... i think you should
Drove up to hillside manor sometime after two a.m. And talked a little while about the year I guess the winter makes you laugh a little slower, Makes you talk a little lower about the things you could not show her
And it's been a long december and there's reason to believe Maybe this year will be better than the last I can't remember all the times I tried to tell myself To hold on to these moments as they pass
And it's one more day up in the canyon And it's one more night in hollywood It's been so long since I've seen the ocean ... i guess I should
- Counting Crows
Susan Reno-Gilliland A Southern Belle's Life 2005 © Copyrighted Materials - All Rights Reserved.
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Tuesday, September 06, 2005
Expect The Unexpected
Have you ever been cruising along through the day, totally oblivious to everything around you when, suddenly, out of the blue, something happens that completely takes you by surprise? Whether it is a pleasant surprise, or a not-so-pleasant surprise, those sudden occurrences that happen when we least expect them have a way of altering the rest of our day, don't they?
For instance, the telephone rings and it is a friend you haven't spoken to in quite some time, but have been planning to call. You sit down and have a wonderful chat, catching up about this and that, and the rest of your day is a little more uplifted because of that conversation. Or, you go to the mailbox, expecting the usual bills and junk mail, only to find a refund check where you accidentally overpaid something many months back.
In my daily planner recently was this quote:
“Everything has meaning, everything.” ~ Laura Day Whether we understand or completely comprehend the meaning at this moment in time, everything has meaning. So, we shouldn't be so quick to dismiss each and every one of those moments as they pass throughout our day as simply the passage of time – some insignificant flash on the journey to something of greater importance – because each moment holds an importance of its very own, no matter how small it may be in the overall scheme of the grandeur of life.
And, as if there was a theme unfolding, in a recent fortune cookie was this message:
“To affect the quality of the day is no small achievement.” There is a wonderful book by Debbie Ford, New York Times #1 best-selling author, creator of The Shadow Process, and founder of the Ford Institute for Integrative Coaching, entitled The Secret of the Shadow: The Power of Owning Your Whole Story* that begins with this dramatic opening paragraph:
"Imagine that you knew at birth that you were a master, that you were powerful beyond measure, that you possessed enormous gifts, and that all it would take to deliver your gifts to the world was your desire. Imagine that you came into this world with your heart filled with the healing power of love and that your only desire was to bestow that love onto all those around you. Imagine that you had the innate ability to create and have all that you want and all that you need. Is it possible that at some point in your life you knew that there was no one else in the world like you? And that in ever fiber of your being you knew that you not only possessed the light of the world, but that you were the light of the world? Is it possible that at one time you knew who you were at the deepest level and you rejoiced in your gifts? ake a moment now, and see if you can remember that time when you knew the truth of who you really are."
And, after that bold opening, each subsequent chapter begins with a "Contemplation" which then expands on the concept set out in the chapter's title, and wraps up with a few "Healing Action Steps" to help you apply the insights you've just discovered to your own life's story.
So, if we choose to look at each day, at each moment, as a moment of our own life's story, it becomes something that is exciting, and something that we can claim as truly our own.
In another book, this time by Harvey Rich, M.D., entitled In the Moment: Celebrating the Everyday** Dr. Rich outlines five principles which will make it simple for you to create the celebrated life for you and those around you. Those principles, as outlined in Dr. Rich's book, are:
- Principle One: Openness
Be open to the possibility of the moment.
- Principle Two: Sharing
Share the moment to enrich and enlarge life.
- Principle Three: Recalling and Recounting
Tell the stories; share the secrets.
- Principle Four: Play
Think outside the box, color outside the lines, play outside the moment.
- Principle Five: Recognize Mystery and Awe
Proclaim the mystery of a moment and stand in awe of it.
As you can see, if we stop for just a moment, and truly consider the MOMENT, it takes on a new significance that cannot be ignored. So, today ... stop ... take a moment ... reflect ... and truly enjoy that moment in time – because once it is gone, it is gone forever.
CREDITS
*The Secret of the Shadow: The Power of Owning Your Whole Story, by Debbie Ford, Publisher: Harper SanFrancisco; 1st edition (December 24, 2001), ISBN: 0062517821
**In the Moment: Celebrating the Everyday, by Harvey L. Rich, M.D. and Teresa H. Barker, Publisher: William Morrow; 1st edition (November 5, 2002), ISBN: 0060199687
(both books which I had the privilege of being asked to write reviews of for two on-line book review sites)
For those who were expecting Part IV of "You Can Go Home Again," the series took a hiatus this week. Since feedback has been weak at best on the last two installments, I am debating on whether to continue the saga or not. If you're interested in hearing more of the tale, please take your thoughts to the boards and share them there. The continuation of the tale of Callie and Ryan lies strictly in my faithful readers' hands.
Originally published Tuesday August 12, 2003 (bw) 2003 © Copyrighted Materials - All Rights Reserved.
Susan Reno-Gilliland A Southern Belle's Life 2005 © Copyrighted Materials - All Rights Reserved.
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